People carry different energies around
People carry different energies around, these forces create force fields around each person. The way force fields of different people interact yields different results, some are predictable while some are unexpected.
Generally, there are two kinds of effects that other people’s force fields create around you: pulls and sinkholes.
When someone comes close to you and interacts with you, if their force field creates a pull while interacting with yours, you will experience positive results in one or several areas of your life.
A gossip mate, for instance, can create a positive emotional pull in your life with their gossips because you enjoy those long talks with them.
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A mentor’s pull can quickly impact your bank account and have you earning higher sooner than later.
Sinkholes have the opposite effect, they create a large hole in one area of your life and everything in that area comes crashing down. Do you know someone that always goes out to look for trouble, but soon withdraws to the background while others hurt themselves trying to defend them? What of that person that likes to fight their brother and sisters-in-law? And that person that only brings unique ideas on how you can waste your money?
A girl once fell in love with a boy, he took her out to the beach on their first weekend together. While at the beach, he encouraged her to step into the ocean and take some really nice pictures. She almost drowned as divers were the ones that saved her.
The same week, they had a car crash, the car the boy was driving was upside down by the time rescuers arrived to save them.
That week, the girl broke up with him; even though there was love between them, their force field interaction was tending toward a fatal outcome.
Sometimes, a pull in one area can result in a devastating sinkhole in another area. It is also good to be careful about this phenomenon. For instance, that dude that helps you create happiness by introducing you to drugs might be permanently ruining your health and putting you in danger of imprisonment if caught.
That gossip mate that saves you from boredom, might be ruining your relationships with valuable friends by gossiping to you about every little thing they do. Or they might be preventing you from having meaningful business discussions because they will always derail the conversation into a gossip.
Rather than looking at people’s actions and words, if you pay attention to their force field interaction with yours, you can tell much faster if they deserve to be close to you or not.
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